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Lousy Sex

April 8, 2014

In a new “listicle” posted on its website this week, The Huffington Post outlines Eight Things America Gets Wrong About Sex. From health care to homophobia, the piece covers a range of historical and sociological reasons for America’s sexual dilemmas. It speaks to just about everything, except anatomy. And what’s one thing about American sexual organs that’s unique compared to much of the rest of the world? That’s right—routine male circumcision.

It astonishes me that in talking about sex, pretty much nobody mentions that most adult men in the United States today have been deprived of the most pleasurable, sensitive part of their penises. Without a foreskin and its sensory feedback, a man has difficulty controlling the timing of his orgasm. Also, because he’s missing the very organ that serves a gliding and lubricating function—and because he has a scar where his foreskin used to be—his penis is calloused and dry, when compared to that of an intact man; this creates a friction during intercourse and compromises the pleasure of both sexual partners.

Don’t believe me? Then explain the uniquely American proliferation of lubricants and masturbation creams, the existence of which many Europeans—most of whom are intact—find strange. CIRCUMserum is available for those who want to combat what it calls “Dullness Syndrome” by restoring “natural feeling for more intense sex”; Stroke 29, Wicked Cream, and others are designed to help circumcised men seeking solitary pleasure, who find the after-effects of circumcision to stand in the way of sensory pleasure.

Understandingcircumserum the history of American circumcision helps to explain all of this. In fact, when doctors began promoting circumcision in the Victorian era (late 1800s), the purpose was precisely to reduce pleasure and cause pain–to dissuade men from the “immoral” and “unhygienic” practice of masturbation. Among those who pushed the circumcision solution to masturbation were American physicians Abraham Jacobi (the organizer of the American Pediatric Society) and J.J. Moses (then-head of the New York State Medical Society and president of the Association of American Physicians).

Just as Jewish physician and philosopher Maimonides had recognized 800 years earlier, these fathers of American medicalized circumcision believed that its physiological and psychological effects–aversive pain memory and loss of sensory tissue–would help to diminish sexual gratification, whether self-sought or through genital contact with a partner.

Should we be surprised, then, with findings such as those from Denmark, published in the International Journal of Epidemiology in 2011, showing that circumcised men have greater difficulty reaching orgasm, and that female partners of circumcised men are less likely to feel sexually satisfied?

What is astonishing is that American doctors persist in a practice designed to ruin the natural pleasures of sex, and then deny that it in fact does so. Meanwhile, the vast majority of adult American men are living with scars instead of foreskins. Half of the couple is missing a most basic, sensual part of his anatomy, and we wonder why Americans find sex less than fulfilling.

Georganne Chapin

 

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  1. Howard. permalink
    June 11, 2014 11:36 am

    What a beautifully concise, yet informative blog! I wish there was an easy answer as to why, we in North America, are still fighting such an obviously harmful custom. Plain logic dictates that amputating such a wonderfully erogenous and functional organ can only have a negative effect on that persons sex life.

    The last paragraph says it all – the unbelievable level of denial that is prevalent within the medical community that they are , in fact, violating their own oath “TO DO NO HARM”.

    • June 12, 2014 1:31 am

      Agree 100%. Large portions of American doctors act just like an organized mafia

    • Gianluca permalink
      June 18, 2014 3:01 pm

      The problem in America is that doctors are told what to do by the clinic or hospital they work for. Since circumcision is a big money maker, most doctors are coerced into performing it even if they don’t like to do it. Then, they defend themselves saying “It was the parents who requested it”. This masks the fact that parents were not correctly informed about it in the first place and that most hospitals encourage parents to consider it by claiming that there are “benefits”. Also, when parents disagree it’s enough that one parent puts the signature down. Why is it that the handbook that comes with the birth plan does not include a discussion of potential long term side effects, both physical and psychological?

  2. concerned cynic permalink
    May 30, 2014 1:50 pm

    The problem is that circumcision is a major alteration of the most sexual part of the male body, the tip of the penis. I won’t go into details, but before meeting my eventual spouse, I was very occasionally naked around women my age. That they my backside made it tingle, but did not bother me. Ditto for my pubic hair. I was embarrassed that they saw my scrotum, because I think the scrotum is ugly. At any rate, there is no folklore about women perving over the scrotum. That a woman sees the shaft of my penis does not bother me; call me strange. The only part of my body that feels very strongly private and sexual, is the tip of my penis, my glans and foreskin. This was especially true in America last century, where the foreskin was deemed weird and shocking. That the men depicted in fine art all had foreskins is a fact passed over in silence. I have never heard a woman comment on that fact.

    The American urban upper middle class began circumcising around 1880. Hospital birth gradually became the norm for those living in cities and having money. Circumcision became a common part of the maternity ward protocol. Thus RIC spread through the American population, along with hospital birth. 1860-1920, many articles were published in British and American journals advocating the routine circumcision of boys. We do not know why the arguments of those articles found favour with doctors and parents. At any rate, the American penis gradually became a bald penis, a process that began in the upper and upper middle classes, and worked its way down. Barracks life in the world wars made all American men aware of what city slicker parents were doing to their boys.

    Polite American culture surrounded the mechanics of sex with a great deal of silence and shame. No woman dared speak up and say that circumcision damaged a woman’s sexual pleasure, because a woman who spoke in this fashion was revealing that she had indulged in taboo premarital or extramarital sex. The sexual truth about circumcision could not be revealed before the 1980s.

    Ms Chapin’s post is well written and informative, but more can be said under this heading. Even though AMerica has been circumcising boys for 130 years, there are no American studies of the possible adverse consequences for adult sexual life. We do not know whether circumcision makes PE and ED more or less common. There are no studies of how circumcision affects the aging of the penis. There are no studies of women who have been in long term relationships with both kinds of men. In fact, there has never been a careful clinical examination of a large random sample of adult American and Canadian penises. Pediatric urologists are the ambulance drivers at the base of the American circumcision cliff. American PUs do not reveal how much of their caseload consists of repairing problems stemming from RIC.

    The candle lit in all this American sexual darkness is the many American women who have decided that there is nothing wrong with the natural penis, and nothing right with the American bald penis. And the American women who have experienced both kinds of men, have discovered that intact is more pleasant, and then have shared that discovery with the world via social media.

    • June 22, 2014 8:34 am

      Excellent post!

    • June 22, 2014 12:25 pm

      Did not get the point, the meaning of your comment

    • June 22, 2014 12:31 pm

      Ah stupid me , you did not made the comment you just said ” excellent post” ? I got mixed up

    • Gianluca permalink
      June 24, 2014 9:13 pm

      In Europe, where circumcision is not common, the bare glans is considered something very sexual. For example, if you go to a mix-gender sauna where men and women walk around naked in front of each other, you will notice that all men have their glans covered by the foreskin. Retracting the foreskin to expose the glans could be misinterpreted as an attempt to be sexual, similarly to a woman using her two fingers to open the external labia and expose the interior of her vulva.

      Would any parents in the US ever consider surgical modifications to their daughter genitals that permanently expose the interior of her vulva? This is how I feel every time that I see a baby boy with an exposed glans (due to the absence of the foreskin). Just plain wrong. It’s like as if the innocence of a baby has been irrecoverably violated.

    • June 25, 2014 1:54 am

      You took the words from my mouth Gianluca, not long ago I was telling my wife that the covers ( this what I call the foreskin, 2 overlapping covers) are like the dress for the glans, the glans is a private thing and jokingly suggested if she not in a good moods its a no, no to look under those covers. As a European I see often statues of little boys peeing it to the pool or something the same with other arts and painting, the boys are 100% intact to see the glans would be very offensive. remember a photo of a naked man with his lady beside him in the German Neue Revue magazine, not a porno, his glans was covered, if not than it would be considered a porno. America is so backwards in this regard. Its so criminal what is done in USA to the little helpless people without their consent.

  3. N. Trudell permalink
    May 16, 2014 6:26 pm

    I could even believe that infant circumcision would increase the likelyhood of the individual to become a consumer. Needing more food and material things to feel good about themselves. This could be due to the blockage at the sacral chakra. The blockage could create challenges in cycling energy upwards. This would create an abundance of energy in the root chakra. After all, possessions can own us, and sexual union is free. What could be more consumer than taking away sexual pleasure in a population. Isn’t that what started it all? Masturbation? Instead of accepting and holding space for children to learn about their bodies, western medicine would condone surgically removing a part of a baby boy at birth? Seriously? Is it a wonder that westerner are often more unaccepting and righteous than other parts of the world? Circumcised infant boys have been taught that at birth. To believe they are better off without a part of their most sensitive parts? How righteous and unaccepting is that?

    • May 16, 2014 10:56 pm

      The majority of westerners are not cut. And how is western medicine responsible for genital cuttings?Most oppose it if we include Europe and others. And you do not include the Jews and Muslims,they cut far more than the the USA.

    • N. Trudell permalink
      May 16, 2014 11:16 pm

      Perhaps I was misunderstood. When I said westerners, I meant far westerners. All the way to the states. I understand that most European men are natural and uncut. I apologize for the confusion.

    • N. Trudell permalink
      May 16, 2014 11:36 pm

      I am speaking only of infant circumcision. Muslims and Jews cut for other reasons besides medical. Anyways, I have read that some Jewish folk are refusing to have their children cut, and Muslims cut at adolescence not as infants. I don’t dare challenge religious institutions. I am not that righteous. Their is a group somewhere in Africa where the girls get cut at puberty. It is part of their culture, and is a right of passage for the young women. Who am I to say that that is wrong? Life is color, not black and white.

    • May 17, 2014 1:57 am

      Philippines also cut 90% boys around the age of 12 because of customs not religion. I am perhaps the harshest critic of the human species you ever meet. Have zero respect, for any religious believes of those destructive creatures, their gods are just imaginations of the old or mentally ill, their customs based on mental illness of some kind. Religion do not teach logic, common sense,rationality. Only cosmology, astrophysical scientist, some philosophers or particle physicist deal with the real God and try to understand this Ultimate Force. Some do not like to use the name God, many do, like Einstein. Many believe, based on the theory of the Big Bang, that the Universe started out of nothing,and when I challenged Allan Guth who I met for a short time he could not ignore the fact I challenged him on, that Big Ban theory, he saved , is relative only to the observable Universe. A fish can not determine what the ocean is if it do not see the whole picture. we are that fish. We see a tiny part of the ocean and fail to see the planet its sits on and the infinity beyond. Big Ban to me just become another religion. Circumcision is upsetting to me, because it show the mental illness of the human mind. We are going to self destruct if unable to seed rationality in the future generations. A rational human being automatically understand that the human body,and all life and beyond is a mystery we shall not play with. A mother come to a doctor and ask him to circumcise her boy because the father is. The doctor refuse and explain to her, why he -she will not.We need more principled and rational people to teach. I piss on Mohammad , and all those retarded ideas and yet I am tolerant and do not argue.My wife believe in Jesus and I never put her down on that, evolution is a slow process. I know few Muslims well, one even recognize I am right and start to restore what his religion stole from Allah creation, he believe in.Anyway I made my point…………

    • May 17, 2014 2:39 am

      A group in Africa cut girls? You know very little on this, get yourself a book written by Ayan Hirshy Ali ” The Infidel” I was unable to put it down and read it all night. There is a death thread on her by the Muslims. she now live under the protection of USA, involved in politic in Holland , she made a short movie that cost the film maker his life, churches started to burn , Holland unable to protect her, because , she a Muslim insulted Mohammad. 3 million girls cut each year my friend all over the world not just some in Africa. She oppose male circumcision also. She at 4, sister at 5 and brother at 6, all forced , one day when the mother opposed any genital cuttings, left for a day,all her 3 children forced in to the genital mutilation that day by the grandmother Her sister the most happy girl in the world changed that day, become insane and died in Holland at 20. Look her up.She also give speeches, on Fox News with Kelly and other news media including Canada. Any anti- circumcision person should know her name and read her story. A black African from Somalia, today a philosopher and some of the most intelligent woman I ever read about.

    • May 17, 2014 2:51 am

      Ayaan Hirsi Ali, did not write it correctly. Look her up

    • N. Trudell permalink
      May 17, 2014 2:15 pm

      I was unaware that muslim culture cuts women. I was referring to a society in Kenya that still practices cutting women. I don’t claim to have any answers for anyone but myself. I speak from my own personal experiences and research. Once again, I don’t see black and white. Choices and karma have more color than just right and wrong. I endorse choice for all. The creator I praise is the one that grants free will. Any others are just petty tyrants in my life.

    • N. Trudell permalink
      May 17, 2014 2:54 pm

      As a reminder. this blog pertains to the topic of circumcision and lousy sex, and how it affects people and relationships. I can imagine there are other blogs to express personal beliefs and feelings on cutting infants and children. I choose to see that people are different, instead of better or worse. Challenging moments in our lives can shape who we are as individuals. People who are uncut are simply focused differently than people who are cut. That procedure shapes individuals for their specific purpose in their lives. Also, remember, that preaching falls on deaf ears. Present a balanced argument, and let individuals make up their own mind. True empowerment comes from inside the individual person. If you see the “stupid in others”, how does that speak of yourself? Heal ourselves, heal the world.

    • May 17, 2014 11:30 pm

      I am lost sometimes in your ideas, lot of it is a theory that can’t be proven like karma , that originate from India. Did you look up Ayya Hirsi Ali?

    • N. Trudell permalink
      May 17, 2014 11:39 pm

      Karma compares to synchronicity, as in Jung. Karma teaches lessons in empathy and awareness. And no I have not looked up Ayya Hirsi Ali. When I have a moment I will.

    • May 18, 2014 12:11 am

      Where did you study all this stuff? I like Zen, what you thing about that? I am surprised you know so little about so much talked about female genital mutilation. Just in Egypt with population of 89 million well over 90% of woman are mutilated , that is about 40 million, the same in Sudan , Somalia , Indonesia, and so much more and its growing. 3 times the number girls mutilated each year than the number of boys in USA. The way you say things you would not get upset about what is happening to the other gender around this globe? Me I am deeply troubled not just about boys. Far more girls die from this than boys, just because its not practiced in America, we can not ignore it. In fact you also might not know that girls in USA were mutilated also, not as dramatic as in some cultures , but the clitoris was cut out, not to all but many, because the clitoris just as the foreskin give pleasure. And this was not practiced on some funny cultures in USA but white USA born girls. There is a book written in this by an American woman, she was cut. Will find the title.As for Carl Jung, he was an leftist idiot and so was Freud, both Materialists.

    • N. Trudell permalink
      May 18, 2014 3:13 pm

      Most appreciated Paul, I feel that you believe in chance and right and wrong. I perceive purpose, and intention. I believe that experiences have purpose to shape and direct who we are. Otherwise, life is just left up to chance. I feel the magic in the creation. And again, this is a blog on circumcision and lousy sex. How about we stay focused, and leave the philosophy discussion for another blog? All that are born, die. We all suffer, it defines joy. Ayya Hirsi Ali’s experiences have helped shaped who she is. You apparently find her interesting and knowledgeable. Do you thing she would be different if she wasn’t cut. Would her life focus have been different? The universe works in mysterious ways, or perhaps as you may believe, things are just left up the chance? I believe that we are only right for ourselves, and preaching falls on deaf ears. Do you like to be told what to believe? Who does?

    • May 18, 2014 3:57 pm

      No Ayyan Hirsi Ali would not be the same if she was not genitally mutilated. She would perhaps have bunch of kids with some Muslim and we would know less of what is going on around this world. But I stick to the point that if we fail to see the whole picture not just genital cuttings……if cuttings stop what else will come up later when humans are ignorant? Can not explain it well. I understand ,that what I study all me life is complex to many and should not mention it in those debates,…..I do it all the time in the comments , like in Drudge Report on this matter.It cost me money because I do less work, but I must do my part,can not be silent.

    • N. Trudell permalink
      May 18, 2014 3:29 pm

      I have already explained that a person’s life may just be refocused in other ways when sexual pleasure in taken away from them. You yourself have acknowledged this. Good or Bad? Right or wrong? To me, judgement becomes the struggle in accepting what is. I am talking about the “perhaps” in the buddhist story of the the farmers who’s horse runs away. Acceptance, to me, is love. Unconditional acceptance is unconditional love. Acceptance of myself and who I am, and the world around me. Yeah, I can make changes in myself to readjust my life course, but I can’t make anyone do it for them. I can make changes by giving my son choice, and leaving him intact and natural. I can share my feeling and thoughts with others who are willing to listen. I can’t however tell anyone what to believe. Individuals have to do that for themselves. Otherwise, we let government do it for us. And we understand how that turns out. I like to say, “The best part of letting someone else make choices in our lives, is that we always have someone to blame.” Ha

    • May 18, 2014 4:21 pm

      Unconditional love can not live on its own, it needs to be balanced,by the opposite force. The Universe exist on balance. What is the name Ying and Yong? Your philosophy in my mind is not workable.There always will be hot-cold,dark-light, gravity-anti-gravity, bad-good,love-hate, war-peace,bad-good,woman-man, anger-calm and so on. Sometimes it work what you say, but not because of unconditional love or whatever but for other reasons.

    • N. Trudell permalink
      May 18, 2014 5:00 pm

      I call this reality the “Reality of Duality”. Other realities exist only through direct experience. This I would relate to the “Tao” that cannot be spoken of. But duality is the ruler and lesson of this reality. Contrast promotes growth. Light, dark, wet, dry, hot, cold. pain, pleasure, separateness and oneness. Denial, acceptance. good bad right wrong. Feelings and emotions however exist in more than just duality. Feelings and emotions run through our psyche and dreams. These are feelings that permeate our entire cellular bodies. The choices we consciously make either aid or haunt our realities beyond just conscious thought. Even at a physical level in the cells of our bodies. Have you seen the water molecule test by Masaru Emoto? This is like karma to me. :)

    • May 19, 2014 11:03 am

      You did lot of reading and thinking. Taoism is the oldest form of Chinese philosophy and Zen the more modern version and just as Tao Zen can not be spoken. Words can not express so much but feelings and imaginations can but those can not be put in words very well. Taoism started to take hold on China some 5.000 years ago I think. A little bit later Vedas came to India and much later Judaism, in my view a very simple minded religion. Vedas is another religion full of imaginations. A religion is something what can not be proven ,Tao and Zen however on the other hand , do not put words in to your mouth, you have to create your own personal image on Reality. I like that. You are not bossed by somebody else, you are your very own Master and one with the Creator or Creators, whatever that Ultimate Reality is. And since you not being bossed in to anything nobody tell you mother to ruin her son genitals because those do not belong to the mother or her son but to the Reality

    • May 19, 2014 11:48 am

      But here I have problem with you statements.Can we achieve anything without duality? How can we stop this madness done on children by that what you say. Only some get it. Sometimes a whip is needed to teach the horse to pull. I know horses , grew up with them, we used them for work and me as a child knew how to handle them, harness them and make them pull. But since they were better to me than people, and did not tell me what to do, I felt soon sorry to hurt them as others did, so I used psychology of fear instead of physical force and it worked better than whip. So tell me , what is your idea, you have those that ruin Nature work, love to ruin children genitals before they get older and wiser by experience with those genitals and there are tons of other things people do.I hate to compare horses to those people because the horses have more wisdom given to them by Nature, but imagine for a while they are the horses that are bad, what do you do with those horses without a whip? How about a little fear, psychology of some kind? I think Intact America is doing good , getting more bold than before and ideas will grow over time how to handle those bad horses? Think of it At this moment while I write this and when you read this, there are many little girls screaming,their clitoris being cut out and on some even more like in Ayya all loose stuff cut out and than with a needle and string saw the cut leaving just a tiny hole for pee. The pain is so huge more people are needed to hold that child. Even a tiny few days boy need to be tied well because he will twist his body from all the pain, its like being eaten by a bear alive. Right at this moment of yours . Do you hear the screams of all those children? You do. Its anger in you that you try to deny?

    • N. Trudell permalink
      May 18, 2014 5:16 pm

      The best words of this unconditional love I speak of is “Ecstatic Appreciation”. I felt it when my children where born, and throughout our lives together. I feel it when I am suffering and begin to see the “silver lining” or begin to get out of myself and my personal feeling for the sake of the bigger lesson. Lesson that involve a bigger drama than just my own. We are just characters in other people’s lives, and the main character in our own lives. There is a whole play of duality going on in the world. ha ha And yes, I do feel the world, but I will attempt to uplift instead of suffer with it. Everything that has a weakness has a strength. Duality. Ha

    • May 19, 2014 12:00 pm

      But again is not duality hate-love, war-peace and so on? That do not mean that we have to cut meat out of fully conscious children or even unconscious for the better of others in the future. Some of your statements remind me Martin Heidegger , do we really need Hitlers to progress, to evolve, better, the human nature?

    • May 19, 2014 12:23 pm

      I am a beekeeper since I was about 10 , and when I observe the bees doing their work for the good of all life , this is Zen to me, and see the incredible wisdom of Nature a human do not have. A human in a crowd is the opposite of wisdom. The children screaming from pain at this very moment is the result of the man and woman in the crowd. They will never understand the wisdom written by Nature in to the bee.What do human do for the better of all life as the bee do?

    • N Trudell permalink
      May 20, 2014 12:42 am

      I believe that we just found some fundamental differences in our individual perspectives. I meditate on plants, you choose animals. Plants, when they lose a part of them will just focus energy elsewhere. Plants give life and are content to just be. Plants were here before animals. Plants have a provable form of consciousness, and memory. Plants have much to teach in nature as animals do.

    • May 20, 2014 2:15 am

      I love plants specially trees. did not tell you yet about Julia Hill ” The Legacy of Luna”? If you get that book and read the page 8 and 9 this is how I feel. Would you feel the same as Julia did? i am almost fanatical about the lives of trees, one day i bought a house and there was this aspen very close against the house, in the back, I would not cut, hate cutting trees so I got my jacks and lifted the 2 story house, put on rollers and moved it 4 feet south away from the tree.Am a forest ranger by education and trees are my love . Should not judge me when you do not live in my head

    • May 20, 2014 2:49 am

      Its the trees that show me or bring me in to the state of mind called Zen. The trees in their silence teach more than the animals. As a child I loved one tree in our yard on the hill, I sat on that tree almost every day. One day my school had some social activity, going on a field trip,I refused and climbed on that tree and my class went by and all laughed at me and I did not care. that maple tree had 4 branches where I could sit like in a chair and I watched the world around. The birds, farm animals, and the huge castle in front of me. Look it up under …..Jindrichuv Hradec castle Czech Republic……. When I was studding to be a forest ranger, I lived in that school, and one day I came home and all my trees gone. My mother let them cut. To me it was like my home was gone , when I finished schooling,I escape to Austria and a year later ended in America. trees and plants are my life. How could you get me so wrong? When I was deciding what my future wife shall be like, I send her the “Legacy of Luna and other books just to have some idea how she react and it was possitiv and today we have a young family, just because of how she felt about that book and also some stuff about the Universe. I knew she was the right person for me

    • May 20, 2014 3:10 am

      Zen is when you become one with all, the plants, animals and all that exist beyond.Zen is to be absent, free from people.

    • June 22, 2014 12:42 pm

      You could be correct Trudell. When sex sucks people might re- orient in to different things that please them like foods, and material things. If sex do not sucks they hop in to bed often and their minds are more in some sort of a trance and the above is not as important, unless they make lot of hungry off springs to feed. HAHAHA

  4. N. Trudell permalink
    May 16, 2014 5:23 pm

    Does anybody know any male sexual tantra teachers who are circumcised? “The truth is self-evident.”

  5. N. Trudell permalink
    May 16, 2014 2:51 pm

    Has anyone considered the difference in the ways a condom fits on a cut and uncut man. Condoms fit more securely on a cut man. So, as for condom and spermicide lubricants, which have often contain a compound known as N-9, a cut man is ideal. Profits, profits, profits. I believe that the foreskin is way more important than just increasing or decreasing sexual pleasure. I believe that it also plays into a man’s hormones. I have met a man who had three older brothers that were uncut. He ,however, was circumcised. He explains that all of his older brothers are more masculine that he is. The foreskin also directly affects the height and closeness that the testicles are from the body. When it is cold, the foreskin contracts, and so does the scrotum. When it hot, the foreskin relaxes, and so does the scrotum. When this system is out of balance, the hormones in the testicles can be affected. Also the foreskin offers protection for the glans from hot and cold, Imagine how much more sensitive circumcised baby boys are to hot and cold changes, than a natural baby boy, especially in water.
    This idea, along with others, has convinced me to believe that a circumcised boy and man are more likely to be more sensitive to their physical environment. Maybe that is why the cut man is more driven in the world of material wealth and attainment, because they lack the ability to feel natural sexual pleasures, and truely enjoy the transcendental natural of sexual union. So, instead of hormonally attracting a partner in their life, a cut man may attempt to attract a partner in a material way. Still, I believe that everything that has a strength has a weakness, and choice is the important topic here, not righteousness.

    • N. Trudell permalink
      May 16, 2014 3:00 pm

      I can even imagine that testicular cancer is higher among circumcised men than natural men. Has anybody looked into that? The balance and connection between foreskin and scrotum is essential in maintaining the ideal temperatures for healthy cellular reproduction.

    • N. Trudell permalink
      May 16, 2014 3:02 pm

      I will choose to trust the body and the creator, before I trust man and western medicine.

    • N. Trudell permalink
      May 16, 2014 5:47 pm

      When I wrote that a cut man would be more sensitive to their physical environment, I meant in an emotional way. A cut man may seek more emotional security from their life. Can money and possession affect our emotional well-being. Even more so in a man who no longer finds pleasure in sexual union? Circumcision would directly affect the way energy circulates in our energy pathways. Physically, emotionally, and psychologically. I could believe that any acupuncturist would say so!

    • Betty permalink
      May 18, 2014 1:23 pm

      Your comments on hormonal effects of circumcision are so true; indeed, ancient people understood this in their own particular, nonscientific way, and that is why they started the practice. I suspect that some supporters and practitioners of circumcision know these things but of course keep quiet about it.

    • May 18, 2014 1:48 pm

      Noel might be correct on this one. Its hard to explain it but in my view when you cut of the vast majority of nerve sensors on mans reproductive, that communicate with his brain……to give signals………..the lack of those sensors do seems or will trigger hormonal changes. But that was the exact aim of those doctors that started this in the first place. To reduce manhood And its amazing this is still done to over million of baby boys in America. in the 21st century. Its so absurd it just leave some of us speechless, looking for words to explain.

    • May 18, 2014 3:37 pm

      Amazing, Noel might be visiting his children on the weekend. What stories I read more and more, wife leave, children separated from a parent because that parent reproductive was altered without his approval and a wife, perhaps rightfully leave for another one, who not mutilated. Not always the reason for leaving, but growing numbers in USA woman do for this reason, all because a professional who is supposed to heal do damage instead for all kinds of reasons, profit one of them. Many years ago before, I was alone on my theory what genital cuttings will do to a man, I was not outspoken because I was alone. Today with people like Noel I no more hide and talk more to others whenever I have time I put comments on news articles and beside other talks I mostly manage slip in, this USA genital mutilation problem for many to read. Some get angry at me some approve, depending how I put it. We all that know must give a little chip for the sake of the helpless children doctors do damage on . The amazing thing is that doctors just ignore. This is after all 21st century. no conscience, no see ahead, they just stay silent, no explanation to the mother, they just cut. In Canada many say something in opposition as I am told, but not in the USA. They just cut. Amazing.

  6. Betty permalink
    May 15, 2014 11:16 am

    Off topic or maybe not. Can someone advise this fellow what to do with him being 24 years of age but still not fully retractable? From the UK. (I’d know what to tell the parent of a child but not an adult male.)

    http://www.patient.co.uk/forums/discuss/how-can-i-help-my-foreskin-detach–144907

    • May 15, 2014 12:51 pm

      Its like a rubber bit by bit put a pressure and one day it will be as it should be. no problem , he is lucky that its not short and do not cover. This guy named Peter a friend of my 22 was worried about it also when he with a woman, me I did not think about it at that age perhaps I was the same, do not remember. It just be in time the way his girl like it and she can be a help as well.

    • Betty permalink
      May 15, 2014 1:11 pm

      Paul, would you be so good, then, as to post your advice on that site? Hope you will. I’m a woman, it’s not my business to tell a man these kinds of things. (Why would he listen to me.)

    • May 16, 2014 12:51 am

      Your friend got the same problem like in the newspaper article? i wonder, i read how in America the medical mafia, I call them, tell parents ,to force the covers back to clean the glans. This is idiotic. Most of the American doctors are mutilated, what do they know about the covers they do not have? I hate to call it a foreskin because it gives a wrong impression. Only the top is a skin, under it is another material separated from the skin. those 2 join at the tip and at the base and Nature put some kind of sealed lubricant in between so in sexual activity those 2 glide over each other and do not cause a friction to the lady sensitive insides. That is in an adult man, in a baby the inner material is glued to the glans until the age, in my case about 15. If a mother or a doctor force the covers back, it will rip the inner cover , from the glans causing damage. The profit driven doctors just love it. what happen when someone rip a finger nail from your finger? Very similar..And than those basters tell the parent to circumcise The child suffered an injury. If this happened to your friend, part of the inner covers could be fused to the glans? Lets hope nobody touched , nobody ripped and than in time it will be as is supposed to be. If I be in his situation I would experiment, like lubricate something soft , with no sharp edges say a plastic tooth pick and try to slide it in past the spot where the covers stop. If it go in he is OK, if not i would figure out something else. He needs a woman with a little bit understanding…..I could go in to all kind of ideas but that would take forever and this not my language to explain well.Did he try sex? He should and do not see any problems, that would fix it the best. Me at 15 I never uncovered the glans. One day I look and see this strange pink thing, wondering what the hell is that. I touched that and it hurt like fire, finger is to rough to touche a sensitive inner organ, protected for some 15 years and since then do not recall looking or touching there till about 23 when a curious girl did something and asked if it hurt. She puled that back I think I did not look being so shy. No it did not hurt and sex was as it should be. Was I any help? Tell your friend to give it a little pull or push and over time it gets better.

    • Noel Trudell permalink
      May 15, 2014 4:36 pm

      I feel that the 24 year old man resists and tightens to his full sexual experiences. This may cause him pain and contraction. Perhaps he is over anxious or a nervous sort who is a shallow breather. I would recommend that he learns how to breath and relax into his lower abdomen and sexual parts, along with what Paul advises. He may just experience the best “O” of his life when he does. Breath and the whole world breaths with you, orgasm and the whole world can orgasm with you too. Ha ha ha

  7. Noel Trudell permalink
    May 15, 2014 12:10 am

    I was born in the 70’s. I understand that circumcision is a dying practice. Yet, I the height of the AIDS epidemic circumcision was recommended for preventing STD’s. Most men that I talk to today were born between 70’s through 90’s. I understand that since the internet more accurate and enlightening information has been shared. I don’t claim that men and women prefer circumcision in the states, we just don’t know any different. However, as we understand more and more boys are growing up uncut, and more and more women and men with enjoy a more pleasant sexual union. How fortunate or unfortunate for them is still “perhaps” for me. I do find it understandable that Hugh Hefner the chief editor of Playboy magazine is an uncut man. He still appears to enjoy sexual union well into his later life. I think that the cut man would just righteously think that Hefner used alot of Viagra, but you and I know that he just still has his sexual sensitivities, and young attractive women around all the time helps too. ha ha

    • May 15, 2014 1:25 am

      get yourself a Filipina , they do not mind a cut man, 90% of their man are cut but in older age its a custom for them. They tend to be a little bossy but make a wonderful wife. You talk of some benefits in circumcision? like what, that is rubbish , how about to cut of the ears they so hard to wash, or breast to prevent a breast cancer..

    • Betty permalink
      May 15, 2014 11:18 am

      I read that Hefner had to have several of his dollies working on him simultaneously to be able to “enjoy sex”. All while watching porn on a screen, too. LOL This info from a spy/writer. For what it is worth.

    • May 18, 2014 12:04 pm

      Do you really understand yourself? Freud said that is the hardest thing to do, commenting on his good friend Nietzsche who he envy for his ability understanding himself and said that perhaps no person do or ever will understand himself -(herself) as Nietzsche did. Overstatement but something to it. So I ask you . Do you understand yourself? If you do not you can not understand the world around you. That do not say I understand myself but try my best, When I at the age of about 15, try to understand Kant as Einstein did at the same age and than Nietzsche for the first time, something hit me like no other philosopher did. If you can feel yourself you will will feel also others. You understand the injustice done to you, do you feel the hurt of others as well? Like Falun Gong in China, followers of harmless spiritual practice numbered 100 million just short years 14 ago now prohibited in China,and put in jail and their organ harvested while still alive. Do you feel the pain of 3 million 5-10 years old girls held by their mothers and helpers, because they will just experience the worst shocking pain in their life, a “barber” will start cutting parts from their vaginas, many die.Do you feel the suffer of the creature being killed for your dinner table? I do and so I do not eat it.Nietzsche seen a horse being beaten because he could not pull a heavy wagon up to the hill and came to the horse embrace him with tears in his eyes telling to the horse ” forgive us” If you just concentrate on genital mutilations of helpless babies around you because of your experience, you could miss the horrors man do all around this planet. I was not cut but I feel what is done and all life around. I do not love mankind. Those millions that think as one. I hate dumb idiotic crowds that think as one. It is they that mutilated your reproductive. I hate all those that believe in others and do not seek the truth within .Its in all, but but sleeping, the “them” is more important than the “me” You talk in terms that can not be proven, like the ancient idea of Karma. you understand the words people teach you very well and use them well, but its complicated how many will understand it? Do your best to speak in provable ideas and facts. Think simply, talk simply. I do not say to know it all, in fact I know that I know nothing, perhaps you know more than me. But do we really know as a whole? The human being got knowledge but not wisdom. Knowledge without wisdom is a very dangerous thing. Human is a very dangerous creature. Julia Hill, one day entered the Red Wood forest of California and she fell something and she run and run deeper and than stop, look around and is transformed. she fell to her knees and start to uncontrollably weep. There was Nature all around her, undisturbed by man for millions of years. She become real herself not just people, one with the whole. Later she climbed on 1000 year old tree called Luna and lived on that tree without putting her feet on the ground for over 2 years. The book she wrote on that tree Legacy of Luna is translated in many languages. Luna was supposed to be cut so people could have their stupid furniture. Huge winter storms, bitter colds something, helicopters, people try to get her down, she survived that all and saved Luna life, a symbolic gesture a wake up call for some among us. Its not just genital mutilation of helpless children, we have to see the whole picture we are part of to have a hope for the future of mankind. If you read Julia Hill Luna and on page 9 you feel what she felt you than become the real you and stop being people but you a tiny particle the Universe is made of. Perhaps all I say not the best written but I tried.

  8. Noel Trudell permalink
    May 14, 2014 11:56 pm

    No, I haven’t heard of the judge in Florida. I believe in choice. I go to karma on things as such. My mind in too limited to understand how the creation works. For whatever reason, it happened. The boy still has a life, and perhaps he will be refocused on other facets of life instead of sexual union. We can know love without sex, and we can know sex without love. Which is better? That is where choices have color, and are more than black and white. Which is better being cut or uncut? Don’t you see the righteousness in the debate? There is advantages and disadvantages to both. My biological father was a uncut man. He choose homosexuality over heterosexuality after having three children. In early 1980 he moved down to San Francisco and contracted AIDS, and also later on in his life he had to have his foreskin removed due to infection. Did having his foreskin affect his choices, YES! Was he fortunate or unfortunate to have it? Perhaps. At least he was able to make the choice, and it wasn’t made for him. That is what I believe in. CHOICE.

    • May 15, 2014 12:22 am

      Your father is an adult man who could make a choice but not a child. But the child will not be cut yet, it was put on hold. The story is on the Intact America Facebook. It just came in. Perhaps your father was a famine guy or something and your mother could not take or something. Whatever I was not there to judge the situation. I view homosexuality as a biological disorder. Perhaps its because of the hormones in the meats or power of suggestion, do not seem to be genetic.

    • May 15, 2014 2:03 am

      Your father is still alive? I was writing to you and my wife called so I did not finish and now I forgot what was I going to say

  9. Noel Trudell permalink
    May 14, 2014 3:19 am

    Remember most every man around me is cut and experiencing the same feelings when making love that I was. I just thought, in my egocentric american mind, that that was normal. Ha Ha Ha. I am thankful for understanding how oblivious I have been in my youth. I am thankful for humility, and lessons that open my eyes. I am thankful that I have stopped that karmic cycle for my family and children. And I am thankful that I can bring this to light to willing listeners in the heart of the practice. Like I have said, this is a very “sensitive” topic of discussion with those around me. I use compassion as one of my tools. Anger only goes toward the society as a whole. Yeah, I know anger, there is alot to be angry about, and alot to be thankful for also. Many spiritual practices teach abstinence and sexual denial. Perhaps, this practice is indirectly creating a country full of men who refocus their energies. Perhaps the next spiritual enlightenment will be centered in a place full of unknowingly “jewish” men. ha ha. I just choose to accept, and understand that everything that has a strength can have a weakness. I like to say ” proud people justify their beliefs.” I will choose to remain as humble as I can. I have suffered my pride many times already.

    • May 14, 2014 12:30 pm

      What part of a country you live that most man are cut? Would not be California, there most not cut, just as in Canada today young mostly not cut. funny, i knew to cut of the covers is a problem but until I talked to you I did not realize this big. And how do you explain to me, that some man and woman like to be cut? I know this can not go to long and one day ” Halo Viagra” with those and woman hurting. They must. Even with a lubricant it get pulled out because the act is not as it was intended by Nature. The intact can control for a very long time but that is play with Nature not good for the Nature given instinct. there are so many sensors in those covers its tricky to fool them, sometimes they can trigger the response even with a small motion, to expel the genetic material out of mans body. When we still monkey we had to act very fast the process of insemination before a competitor chase you away and steel your female

    • May 14, 2014 12:38 pm

      Steal, not steel, in reference to us one time monkeys…….come to think of it, today we in some ways more stupid than they. sorry monkeys you no stupid, we are, you are not harmful to life as this human specie

    • May 14, 2014 10:44 pm

      Did you read on the news that a judge in Florida ordered a 3 year boy to be circumcised? The mother oppose it, father want it. And you tell me not to get angry? the Father and the judge deserve to be hung. I grew up in a communist dictatorship and do not know of any communist country to in force such thing in fast there is not one communist country where they mutilate baby boys as in America. you really live in a fucked place. i have 4 intact boys living in the USA and I am pissed of. Over one million each year are forced in to this barbarity. Forced. In America, the land of the” free”? The land of many stupid that is.

  10. Noel Trudell permalink
    May 14, 2014 2:53 am

    My wife first came to me with the words “genital mutilation”: I responded by overcompensating when I found out I have never known the pleasure a natural man has. I responded by opening up our sexual relationship with others. I knew that the seed has been planted. I didn’t what to be cheated on and lied to, so I attempted to create space for the experience with a natural man in our life without deception. I responded with denial. I responded with the question, “How could a person be attracted to the genitally mutilated?” It explained alot though. Most of my sexual experiences were less than I felt they should have been. Come to find out that there are estrogen receptors in the foreskin that chemically help the two unite into one, and a host of other feeling that I have been missing my whole life. I just recently, with my separation, discovered how much of a factor it was in my sexual relationship with my wife. I understand how she would desire something she has never known also. I relate to that desire. The question I ask is “Would you rather know than live in doubt?” Now I know that it makes a difference in the relationship. Her new relationship has endured through amazing challenges and difficulties. I believe that the unspoken energies shared in their sexual unions was beyond anything she has experienced in her life. I love her. She deserves it. I can learn to get over myself, and see the big picture. Sure, I have suffered the pains of this experience, but what is joy without suffering.
    I feel that you are challenged to accept choice in this practice. You express anger, but what is right is only for oneself. I agree that to take that choice away from a baby boy is criminal and insane, I attempt to accept that somewhere we all made the choices. And if we are to begin to accept, than abortions and circumcisions should only be done for medical reasons. Men came intact, who is to question? Potentially healthy babies are gifts from the creator. Who are we to judge?

    • May 14, 2014 12:02 pm

      I can not argue with you because you seem to be right on many things, but, truth is relative to the observer only, my truth is relative to my understanding and yours to yours.Humans are not the Ultimate Truth in the Universe. here on this planet the most damaging creature to all life. genital mutilation just a small part of human stupidity but I bite in to this one a big way in my war on this creature that gave itself the name human. I hate ignorance. I hate stupidity ignorance creates, I seek ways how to teach rationality to the ignorant and I bite the best I can those that sleeping unable to wake up from their by human seeded self centered doctrines. I am a student of Nietzsche , what do you expect? to be nice to everybody stuck in ignorance? no I kick in the hope to create anger ( metaphorically) anger, as an emotion is good at times.I am in many ways a skeptic I knew by using a simple physical science imaginations combined with experience because I intact,I calculated that man who do not have covers over his glans must hurt a woman, specially when she age, or sometimes not if a painful first sexual experiences happen it will get written in to her mind……….her instinct evolved over millions of years and it tells her something not right. I had 2 virgins. The first 20. In those days I was ignorant never gave a thought what the dam covers are for. It took some 2 month, yes 2 month to do a full love past the hymen. Why? Because the dam glans is not created to penetrate anything its the job for the covers to do and open they do with zero harm to the lady. In the end somehow it reached her cervix and she even did not realized that, and above all it was painless and she did not bleed, My guess is somehow the covers came in first.The problem is when the couple fiddle around with motions in their body and the covers tight against her body they open and expose the glans and that is a wrong way the enter her reproductive opening. the glans is a very soft spongy material that flatten like a sponge against an object like a female opening. you will ask now, ” but I am told that upon erection the glans come out” wrong only in those that play too much or whatever and the covers shrink. A smart guy take care that the covers always cover in any situation, big or small.Its there to protect the softness of the glans he shall train it to be so. They are like a rubber can go way past the glans or expose them to the point where it look just as circumcised all the way to his body no they just vanish. i tell you all this so you can imagine since you never experienced that, but if you go to sexasnature intendedit .com # 4 , video 6 there a girl play show a little of that. my second virgin was 32 and by than I knew what the purpose of those covers are. Again I did not want to hurt because she older never had sex, she wanted a baby and we had only few days for that before I leave back to Canada and even with 8 years of writing we did not know each other physically not used to her I panicked the first few days and we did just a little never reaching past the hymen but one morning we made full cervical point love and she did not complain of pain despite she was very dry because perhaps all went so fast and she did not get ready, her lubrication that is and after she said like if excited ” look’ there was a tiny pink spot on the sheet no blood just pink. It happened so fast because when the covers on the right spot they can deliver the rest very fast and with no friction to the lady and so with that speed there could have been a tiny tear this why the pink? Nature is amazing in Her ways how She create everything so perfect. The covers have so many uses and do not tell me I should not get angry at those that cut them of.Without those covers , my second lady would not get pregnant that day and our boy would not be here. You made children without them as millions as well only with a price. Be glad to have the chance your lady gave you to give life to your 3 wonderful children and be happy for her happiness she has now, she gave you a lot. How did she find out about the genital mutilation?

  11. Noel Trudell permalink
    May 12, 2014 5:25 pm

    Circumcision affects our whole culture in the states. Not only in the bedroom and family structure, but in the whole way cut me feel about themselves and their environment. I feel that a cut man is more uncomfortable with his nakedness and body in general. Most circumcisions are unsymmetrical. Studies that I have read lead to the conclusion that we as individuals are attracted to symmetry. An intact penis is much more symmetrical. Also, I believe that the foreskin is super important to blood flow in that area. The foreskin supplies back pressure to recycle blood back through the body after an erection. Which would minimize pooling of blood in the sexual organs. Cancer and disease would be reduced with proper blood flows. Their are many strengths to foreskin and being intact an intact man. However, I choose to look at both sides. I know that my father who raised me was cut as a child. I know that my father has struggled with how he feels about himself his whole life. This is common in the cut man. Since sexual gratification is minimized in relationships, the focus on an individuals life is redirected in the area of emotional well being. I am speaking generally and en mass. I don’t claim that a uncut man can never be as emotionally connected as a cut man, I do claim that in general that would be a trend in a relationship with a cut man. Lasting relationships in the states are emotional centered. We have a very interesting counter culture. My son is intact, but my second nephew is cut. Anger would lead me to conflict with my family in this regard. Would my father, who is seventy, like to find out that he has never know the sexual gratification that a uncut man does? Does my niece want to know that she took away her newborn sons sexual satisfaction? Does any man in the states want to be heard that they got genitally mutilated as a boy, and will never know the pleasure a uncut man will? Does any mother in the states who choose to mutilate the sexual organ of their sons want to know that their sons may just become upset with them when they find out they will never experience their fullest sexual gratification? No, people like to be presented with both sides. This is what I do. I attempt to present both sides. Anger begets anger. Compassion is a key for me in this situation.
    So, I believe that the answer to this culture dilemma lies in, believe it or not, the internet and pornography. I believe the rise of pornography is associated with circumcision. The cut man who has difficulty becoming aroused may turn to pornography, The wife of the cut man may also be exposed to it. And in pornography we find the big “O” orgasm. I have studied the orgasm and how cut and uncut men orgasm, and I have seen more uncut men experience a full body orgasm, and multiple orgasms compared to the cut man. Their sexual partners are also rewarded through the full body orgasm of their partner. Isn’t that what sexual union is? Two into one. Now, the interest in pornography will unlock this secret for sexually active people in the states, and the choice to cut or uncut will become increasing more obvious. When more and more cut men are unable to deny the complete orgasm of the uncut man change will become.
    I suggest that angry be avoided in this situation. I love the mother of my children, I couldn’t have made my three beautiful children without her. I refuse to let my scar bother our relationship anymore. I care that the mother of my children experiences the sexual connection that she deserves. We have been involved in an open relationship for five years because I realized that I couldn’t sexually satisfy her or myself. She has given me three children, and now she would like to feel sexually attractive. She is thirty three years old and in the prime or her life. How could she be sexually attracted to the genitally mutilated? I attempted to create an environment where we could both have the sexual freedoms that we need to get through this challenge in our relationship. I understand her attraction to the uncut man. I feel upset sometimes as to how this sexual desire has manifested in our lives, and how it has affected our choices. Understand that women in the states have a low chance in finding lasting sexual gratification in their cut partners. This may lead women into making choices based on the sexually gratification in the bedroom than the emotional connection with a cut partner. I can see how my emotional gratifications in life have become important to me through the minimization of sexual gratification. I believe this to be common among older cut men. Any in regards to your wife’s sisters relationship, perhaps they argue more because they are focused on creating emotional security in their life.
    I have more to express in time… This topic is important in my life. I live this topic. It is everywhere and mostly unspoken about in the states. I have to be careful and sincere with how I express this to my family and friends. After all, 80 % of my peers are unaware or ignorant about what we are doing. I feel I have already bothered enough of my male friends with this. Most of them are circumcised. Ha

    • May 13, 2014 3:29 am

      When I started to write to my future wife ii years ago I did not know how to put it to her well, I am a very reserved guy regarding names in sexuality even today I am like that, names like pe…..s or va… a I say reproductive or something spe. I say genetic material..m or even circumcision makes me feel uncomfortable I say cut and sometimes a genital mutilations, when I make comments like on the Drudge Report its also better not say names so I am not deleted. i grew up in a very reserved environment back in Europe,coming from the land of castles and stories that influenced me, I like to look at things like a child who see magic every where. If I talk with a woman of my I do not say those above names, for the sake of lasting romance or a mystery. A university professor friend of my have this words written on his wall ” Silence is Golden” . He also let his 2 sons to be cut and I tell you it ruined his older son Mathew life. Long story. Its almost one after midnight and my eyes are closing. But I did not finish what I started.I mentioned almost in every letter this cutting stuff in my perhaps hundreds of letters, but in indirect names. This thing bothered me just as it bother you? Can i ask you, you talk about a scar, that I did not know than that scar is left, why it bother you, because it looks bad or what? And what bothered your woman about you sexual? What did she say to you? I can not imagine well not to have those covers. My new wife is still shy about it because I am also but she start to get better and less shy than me, she touch …If you would have all as you were born with and a woman touch you just a tiny tickle is enough. Yes its true that what the doctor rip from a child is the most sensitive, at least 5 times more that the rest, how can a man expel his reproductive without it I can not imagine. Read that intact man when excited, his glans will be totally exposed. Why is that? Is it because they play too much? not my. I love to have it covered in any situation to protect all the extreme sensitive stuff inside, Nature made it for the inside of a woman reproductive and not be exposed and rub on the cloth, . If a woman curious she can undress it and look at the glans, do all woman like look at it? Or even make it look like circumcised……without the scar. So stupid some woman are, why they like the always exposed glans look? Why some love cut man And why there still would be few man that get cut in older age just because of some woman likes. In Europe we do not have this, almost all girls, intact is a norm, there is more to play with for her, more to discover and far more stuff to touch and ignite.But its very late so I say more later.

    • May 13, 2014 11:42 am

      This could be perhaps a little unusual,two guys one cut the other intact but both passionate about the mutilation done on the helpless, do not think many intact want to go in to this. I am at loss what to say to make your situation any better. You say a lot and hope this evening, will have time to say a few words to it what you say, only I am not so good to express myself so well as you do I am good at war but would not be able to except such a thing as you do. Psychologically speaking I have something what millions in USA just do not, my anger is based on my experience. I can imagine what loss I would have if I be violated on the most sensitive part on human males species reproductive. If I be perhaps my mind would be in different state of consciousness that of submission, you seem to match that. You only read about what was stolen from you and how it would feel to have it. Me I experience it. Can I say perhaps the word empiricism? A knowledge must be based on experience. this what Empiricist as me say, you do not have that knowledge ……..how could you experience anger without empirical evidence? you are in submission because of ? and me not because?. . my consciousness is different from yours

    • Noel Trudell permalink
      May 13, 2014 3:00 pm

      We will find very little emperical evidence about this practice in the states. I find the procedure is very similar to lemurs following each other over a cliff. Where is the emperical knowledge in that act? We blindly follow at times, even to our demise. Please understand that I live among the cut. Anger destroys my relationships with my cut brothers. I have compassion for them and my self. What I as attempting to convey is that not all is forsaken. I don’t agree with the practice on infant boys, however I attempt to find the strengths of both side of the story. Remember, choices have color. They are not black and white. In my learning to accept this in my self and my community I have been able to communicate my feeling on the matter in a neutral way. I have no idea if the brother I am talking to is cut or uncut, and I would choose to insult neither of them. I am a Roman in Rome attempting to have compassion for the situation and the people involved. If I let my anger lead me in this matter, which I have, I find anger and deaf ears. Thank you.

      On Tue, May 13, 2014 at 9:12 AM, The Intact America Blog wrote:

      > Paul Frohlich commented: “This could be perhaps a little unusual,two > guys one cut the other intact but both passionate about the mutilation done > on the helpless, do not think many intact want to go in to this. I am at > loss what to say to make your situation any better. You say a l” >

    • May 14, 2014 1:26 am

      Perhaps you did not get it?I should not have used the word empirical because its used mainly in philosophy and cosmological sciences . What I mean, since you do not have the experience with something what somebody else do, how can you judge why I feel the way I do? Or in other words a human is a part of Nature just like all other species are, we are not separate from other species. anger is a way of life, all mammal animals including man have it written in to their instinct ,When you come to a mother bear to cut something from her cub when she do not look, and her baby scream in pain the mother run and kill you, she is angry at the one who hurt her baby, i was chased by a mother bear, stupid me was taking pictures had to run in my car and the bear climb on top of the car and my big German Shepherd dog who never feared anything before,. just freaked out Some .human mothers would react the same some not. what would you do if there is a law and all baby boys must be circumcised as this idiotic doctor from Australia is calling for?what would I do? Kill just like the mother bear. Am I angry? No. Actually i am a very calm person but I do hate, I hate those that are against Nature, I hate all human that are at war with Nature. You were cut because of mans war on Nature. I am not calling on you to be angry……….as you do on me that I am……..I will not prescribe to this Jesus philosophy that is somebody slap me I should turn the other cheek.I do as Nature ask me to do in the instinct She gave in to me.But I agree with you that you still love your wife and forgive her. how did this all started in your life, when did you discover something wrong, or was it your wife?

  12. Noel Trudell permalink
    May 7, 2014 7:13 pm

    Well, here I go with my first blog on a subject that I have been interested in since my first child was born. The first born was a baby girl, so no circumcision. However, the seed was planted, and the phrase “genital mutilation” reached my ears. I was born in 1974 and circumcision was common. Almost all of the boys that I knew were circumcised. To the extent that when, on rare occasion, an intact penis was viewed it was something to laugh at. We mock what we don’t understand. I felt normal until I was thirty three and found out I have been genitally mutilated my whole life. What a hit to my sexual confidence. Anyways, I now have a beautiful five year old son that has never been cut in his whole life by his parents. We even opted for a lotus birth that allowed the umbilical cord and placenta to naturally fall off at the belly button. No cutting required. Since my son has been born, I have suffered my fate, I am constantly reminded of what I am missing, and I even lost my partner to an intact man. She claims that it is rather required in a relationship for her now. I think it is some “Freudian” energy. My son and I look different down there. I am learning how to relate this to him.
    Now I am single and sexually frustrated. I wallow over the sexual pleasure that I have never been able to experience, and how it has affected my relationship with myself and anyone I am attracted to. I feel incredibly insecure, and am scared of being sexually inadequate to a partner, and losing them to an intact man. I am doing my best to integrate this into my life. The information is like wildfire. Knowledge can be a burden. Anyways, I have much to be thankful for, and am glad to be a part of stopping this infant harm.
    I do, however, believe that everything that has a strength has a weakness. Some of the strengths of circumcision are obvious. Cleanliness, STD,s, and, well, the ability of the cut and injured man to be more in touch with their emotions. During infant circumcision the energy of the personality is shocked out of their physical bodies, and into their emotional one. As cut men lost their natural physical pleasure in intercourse, their emotional relationships with partners become more important to the relationship. Also, I believe that cut men produce less testosterone naturally than uncut men, which would help a man connect and balance easier with his emotions and feelings. I feel this has affected the US by changing the dynamics of the married couple. Sexually unsatisfied couples will stay together, and possibly create a bond that is deeper that just “skin deep”, or lower chakra gratification. The body can become a complete vessel for bliss response. Beyond just the genitals. I also believe that men in the US have done this to perpetuate the empowerment of the female. Yes, I believe, that circumcision has fueled the feminist movement. What else is a population of sexually unsatisfied women going to do? So for all the upset women in the US who may never know sexual gratification due to circumcision, I can relate to you. However, thank the cut men in your life for learning about how to relate to you on a more emotional level. Perhaps, this is the “natural” course for uniting both our male and female polarities within us. I do feel unique in knowing that I am a small percentage of the men in the world with an ability to get over myself, and see the big picture. So keep moving on you masculine women and feminine men. Sex is over emphasized in a world where sex and power sells. “Remember” their is much more to life than sensory gratification. Ha

    • May 8, 2014 1:09 am

      Why you do not restore? I read that those that did their sensitivity will be similar to the uncut one. The cut of nerve sensors , up to 20.000 can not be restored but the glans will and woman are more happy because there is less friction.The low testosterone might be caused by lack of confidence in part. If you restore, more confidence and so more testosterone. if I be in your spot I start right away

    • Noel Trudell permalink
      May 8, 2014 1:54 am

      The restoration systems and ideas I have seen appear rather awkward and unnatural. I already feel unnatural, what would compel me to use a device which creates even more uncomfortableness in my day? Also, I am a father of three young beautiful children. That is somewhat difficult to explain right now to them. Restoration devices are like eye glasses. They may have some use, but they do get in the way. I have, with limited and slow success, been using a technique that simply breaks up the scar tissue. The idea is that no scar, no cut. Also, the body naturally would like to return to its original state, I attempt to help it. I am not in a hurry, and I have the rest of my life to approach this. I don’t have to wear anything uncomfortable, and I have found that the technique has created some frenular tension. I prefer to attempt to accept my choices, and fate. I believe that I chose this so that I was less likely to allow my natural hedonistic tendencies to over take my choices. After all, I am American, and I am amazing at burying my feelings in compulsion. I masturbated plenty as a young person. If sex was any better, I could have been an addict. I truly appreciate who I am and I wouldn’t change any of it. I may just be lucky in life and unlucky in love, and I can feel blessed with that. I do share compassion for the many men in the states who resist this knowledge we share purely through hurt, and denial. Perhaps it’s fuel for the next generations to question authority and listen to our hearts. I appreciate the interest you show in protecting the children from those who would make righteous choices for them.

    • May 8, 2014 10:52 am

      I ask myself how did this happen to the once free spirit, individualistic , Wild West America. The founders were not mutilated. Its unconstitutional. To cut of the most sensitive sexual communication mechanic with the brain on an individual that did not agree to this is pure criminal insanity. And if the cutter know that he-she do a harm to a person without his consent, its a punishable criminality in the mind of any rationally thinking person. Man evolved in to what he is today because of the ability to learn from each other and so we have computers and can go on the Moon. But this blind trust in mans ideas is very risky for all life on this planet not just man. A communal mentality where the many, in millions, dance to the doctrines of the few in power ,(to doctors) included,Nature is ignored and to be dominated. The human specie create the computer but also a nuclear bomb……something wrong in this picture. I get very upset about genital mutilations of boys and girls because it show something how a human in the crowd can be manipulated in to any absurdity. What good is a knowledge when there is no wisdom?

    • May 8, 2014 12:18 pm

      Nature intended the glans to be an internal organ that in love making will meet another internal organ, the cervix, Nature covered it so it stay soft and sensitive and do not cause harm to the cervix. So sensitive is the glans, that when a boy touch it for a first time in his life it gives a sharp burn like feeling just like if a person slide a dry finger over the eye under the protective eye lid. I think its not wise in your situation not to recover it even when it will suck for some time. You are right, some woman leave their boyfriend or a husband because of circumcision, like this young lady in San Francisco I know about from a friend who left her husband of two years for somebody else for this reason. Not fair, specially when the couple have children. When a man restore , I read, that woman will feel far less friction and more pleasure for both.

    • May 8, 2014 1:46 pm

      It is my view that even an intact male just can not do what Nature did not intended him to do. A human is the only animal that masturbate be it male or a female. When a male do and he do not provide a conditions doing it as it is in the female inside during mating it might cause infection. The glans that is protected from the outside is a very sensitive organ and so are the inner covers . The outside cover is different its a skin and a friction do not harm it much. But to do dry frictions to the inside is not natural without some kind of a natural lubricant that is in the female or some substitute. A female naturally lubricate for a reason, if she would not not only her but he too would hurt a little also or even more than her because some 70- 80% of his sensitivity is located in that area exposed in mating. If you Noel would not be cut you would understand it. Yes I can do love to a dry lady just as an experiment to prove for what purpose the foreskin is,and I did in the past without a harm to her but it feels a little uncomfortable at first until she start to lubricate and she always will because she start to feel pleasures that trigger the lubrication this without the anti friction”sliders” would not be possible if the girl feel friction she will not lubricate so easy or not at all When I came to America i read somewhere that 66% of American woman will feel pain in sex sooner or later. many years later I read in 2008 December Glamour magazine on the page 155 Dr,Katharine O’ Connell who wrote that article say the same some 30 years later, that the same number of woman , 66% will experience pain but to my disbelieve she do not know or do not want to say the real reason for this It took millions of years of evolution in all mammals including the human one and its very disturbing the American doctor do not know this as the European doctor start to realize and talk about it. Americas doctors act like a organized mafia that care just for the profit.

    • Noel Trudell permalink
      May 8, 2014 2:45 pm

      I am thankful that I have found an outlet for this subject in you. As you can imagine, discussing this topic with cut American men is quite sensitive. Mostly, the outspoken critices of circumcison in the states right now are women. I can imagine that women in the states are feeling cheated from sexual pleasure as more information come to light. However, lets remember that many of the choices of circumcision are made by the mother. Whether she has been led to believe in the benefits or not. I have also met an individual who at 23 years older decided to have himself cut based only on the fact that he wanted to fit in. The desire to fit in and be accepted can be just as strong as sexual desires. He had no medical reason for doing this. I have seen medical problems with both cut and uncut men. I refuse to take any stance on the matter except that is should be left up to the child. I agree that to cut a baby boy before they can choose for themselves is criminal. I feel that this unique position that American men are in today will have huge implications on the future. Circumcision is a dying practice, yet has some social purpose. As I said before, the American women should be thankful to cut men. Through this nationwide practice relationships between men and women has evolved. Sex is just one aspect of a relationship. I don’t have sex with my children, and I love them just the same. Lasting relationships in America have become based more on emotions than desire. I can understand the religious reasoning behind this practice. Sexual infidelity may be diminished through men or women’s lack of sexual enjoyment. Ha ha. Once again, I don’t agree with the practice on baby boys, yet I understand that nothing is simply black or white. I appreciate you Paul for being an outlet for my feelings on the matter. As you can imagine, there isn’t alot of unbiased opinions on the matter in the states. Remember, the cut men in the states has created the country that it is today. Although we are perverse in some matters, and we thrive on power, we have a unique gift to the world in social reform. Circumcision is one of them. As I stated before, I believe that during circumcision the personality of the baby is shocked out of the physical body, and into it’s emotional body. Emotions are the currency in manifesting. Strong emotions can lead to convicted men who may be able to withstand the Jezebels of the world, and resist sexual gratification. Let’s remember the eunuch’s of the world past. They were trusted and responsible for looking after the most desirous women of the society. I can image that they knew those women more intimately then even the women’s lovers. I believe in choice. Everything that has a strength can have a weakness. Even women can have sexually gratifying relationships with other women without a penis involved. It may be a big topic in the states right now, but in a hundred years?…. Foreplay also becomes a bigger part of the sexual practices in American couples. Cut men need the lubrication that foreplay creates. Maybe we as a society of men decided that we would give up foreskin to focus on foreplay. That is just a joke Paul. Be well. I do wonder if there exists a correlation between circumcision and obesity. I realize that Americans are generally the most obese people of the world. Instead of sexual gratification, we may turn to other forms of gratification. Noel

      On Thu, May 8, 2014 at 11:16 AM, The Intact America Blog wrote:

      > Paul Frohlich commented: “It is my view that even an intact male just > can not do what Nature did not intended him to do. A human is the only > animal that masturbate be it male or a female. When a male do and he do not > provide a conditions doing it as it is in the female inside duri” >

    • May 8, 2014 11:24 pm

      Why you say that cut man created America? This not correct, the founding fathers of the US constitution were intact and so were all man some 120 years after 1776 Declaration of Independence will say more but just doing something at this moment

    • Noel Trudell permalink
      May 9, 2014 12:12 am

      I apologize for being misleading. I understand the founding fathers were intact men. I am more speaking of the last century of the United States. I don’t even claim that anything is better or worse, just different. What I do claim is that a wildfire like this has an incredible amount of cleansing and rebirthing ability. Think of the mass energy of this in a nation. I explained that this is a very sensitive subject in America. We are proud and arrogant in general. How humbling of a situation for the men of the states. You have to imagine how challenging it is to have this conversation in the States with all the righteousness we are smothered in. Culture has yet to be established in the States. Perhaps, this is just another reason for the population of the United States to continue questioning our ruling powers. And for your information, western medicine organizations are very similar to the mafia. Power and wealth are common in ruling institutions. Even the churches. Once a person wields power it becomes harder to let go of. The fear of loss is common among the powerful. Maybe circumcision is symbolic of loss of power, of the sexual nature. Ha ha. Once again, choices are more than black and white, and everything that has a strength can have a weakness, and vice versa Thank you Paul. Be well.

    • paul frolich permalink
      May 9, 2014 1:39 am

      You are an interesting guy the way you talk, most man seem to hate this subject, there is a lot of I can say to this but its late night and also English is not my native language and it takes me a while to express myself well. I have 3 children as you all boys the oldest 30 and the youngest 2 years old. I tell my wife that if I be damaged sexually as it is done in America we would not have this boy and so fast. We wrote to each other for over 8 years and than finally when I came to see her for the first time for just 3 weeks she conceived our baby within the first 5 days of our meeting in Cebu City, she just ovulated and and wanted a baby, there was no time to arrange a marriage as we planed. She was still a virgin at 31 and that was a little challenge with such a short time given. If I be cut that would be next to impossible to make her first sexual experiences ……..what the words? whatever. This matter bugs me for a very long time ,even before the time I had my first computer and Intact America existence. I often go on ” The Drudge Report” and if there is some suitable story I make a comment but almost always use the opportunity to mention shortly about the genital mutilation in the USA. Some get angry at me and some give me good words, at one time I had most of the pluses . I try my best not to hurt the feelings of those man effected. Its not their mistake . But its midnight and must go sleep, will say more later………

      Date: Fri, 9 May 2014 04:42:38 +0000 To: paul_orion16@hotmail.com

    • Noel Trudell permalink
      May 9, 2014 12:18 am

      Intomecu is my facebook avatar. I do very little with it right now. Perhaps we could communicate easier through it though?

    • May 9, 2014 1:47 am

      Ah so its you on the Facebook? OK I except at least you can see my new family. Only very busy and my time for communication is limited.

    • Noel Trudell permalink
      May 9, 2014 2:02 am

      I am among a growing number of cut fathers who are attempting to relate and accept this atrocious act upon ourselves and the baby boys of this country. I enjoy talking about this subject. The conversation helps me learn how to relate this to my five year old son who is intact, without him feeling sorry for me. I will avoid pity the best I can. There is alot to be sad about. Much to be thankful for also. Whatever we look for in a situation is what we see. Goodnight Paul. Congratulations of a new baby boy. Baby boys don’t seem to come to parents who would circumcise. Those parents seem to get baby girls. Ha ha. Seems to be true unless other karmic energies exist. Many insurance companies in America are beginning to refuse to pay for the cutting of newborn boys. We learn.

      On Thu, May 8, 2014 at 11:17 PM, The Intact America Blog wrote:

      > Paul Frohlich commented: “Ah so its you on the Facebook? OK I except > at least you can see my new family. Only very busy and my time for > communication is limited.” >

    • May 9, 2014 11:03 am

      ” The Mind At Birth Is Like A Blank Slate Waiting ,To Be Written On By The World Of Experience”……….John Locke ……..This philosopher had a huge impact on the founders of your once a great country, he is behind what is called America today.Today America is no more what it was, we shall try our best to bring that spirit, the passions of those day back. Or at least the few of us…..The impact of John Locke words you can see from your own experience. You were only few moments or days old and the world of experience started to be written in to your mind in the worst way possible. In opposite to you I am very angry not at the individual but the one who sell herself or himself to the crowd.My hatred for the many, the weak that want to feel strong and join the many. The many can be manipulated by a few the leaders of the crowds, be it elite doctors or presidents or religious leaders seeking power by using gods created in in mans own image. However I do not put down the real Got, as metaphor for the real thing and I do not put down those like my wife who believe in Jesus…i know why ( John Locke again) but will not try to change her as long as she is good and learn to think. My opposition to man in the crowd started already when I was a small child and it got stronger when I discovered thinkers like Nietzsche who ” Thus Spoke Zarathustra” opened my eyes like never anything else before. We all are born to understand Zen but only few will because the doctrines written in to all of us by our early environment. Only few of us will brake the chains man kind put on us. A Master tells that Zen can’t be spoken, a Zen Master can not tech Zen, it each of us that are willing must discover the cave of Zarathustra on our own. A true philosopher can not be repeated like a parrot will, its something he or she must build within. Sometimes we can act as the many but in each of us is the Me. Me and God is one. Me and Zen is one.You and me, we are all particles of literally infinite Universe with endless Suns and planets around those, many with life………Georgiano Bruno paid with his own life some 500 years ago for this statement, was burn by the stake for this what is true true. Why I am so passionate about man ruining somebody reproductive……in part that is? because its done by the weak that sold them self to the many, done on a helpless tiny individual, given to this world by the mystery of Nature. She is millions times smarter than the us. Who is She, what is God? nobody knows but we try to find out and so we have some in science and philosophy that deal with this question. I talk like a progressive. No I am not. Politically I am a very conservative guy and if you are a one of those that support people like Obama try not to go in to that. just like in the case of genital mutilations I am as well passionate in my political philosophy. At first I sound like a progressive…, am vegetarian- vegan most of my life hate how we pollute this planets life and do understand some Obama points. But it ends here.I strongly oppose the murder of a growing being in a pregnant woman. Only Nature can abort life She started, if the woman do wrong things or live under unnatural conditions or what else. Life do not belong to me and you but to that what caused us to be. I hate the way how politicians let the the USA flood this place from people of other cultures and than let the illegals vote for them. I hate big government, i am the one responsible for my own actions, not somebody not related to me or my family. But if I am harmful to life on this planet, the government is here to stop it. But no matter where Obama might be correct, he is a lying creep, that hate America and her constitution. he got no intellect, people of intellect do not seek to rule over others because the know its useless in the long run. Einstein rejected the offer to be a president of Israel. A true philosopher do not seek to rule over others but try to build the self that is in each. And I must go work.

    • May 9, 2014 11:42 am

      Just a while ago I looked at Drudge report that talk that syphilis reached the highest level in USA and so I made a comment relative to the useless genital cuttings in USA. If you go on the Drudge you might find that comment . This how I do my part my duty in little ways to fight this stupidity in man kind

    • May 9, 2014 12:12 pm

      By the way I like Rand Paul, his father Ron Paul is the first presidential candidate who dare to oppose circumcision and feel sorry to let this happen to his 2 sons. If Rand Paul would become a president , my feeling is something will change in the regard of genital cuttings.Both Ron and Rand are medical doctors I could agree with.

    • Noel Trudell permalink
      May 9, 2014 3:39 pm

      Have you ever heard the Buddhist story of the farmer who horse runs away? A farmers horse runs away and all the towns people say ” How unfortunate for you”. The farmer replies “perhaps”. A few days later the farmers horse returns followed by three wild horses. The farmers horse leads the three wild horses into the corral, and now the farmer has four horses. All the towns people said ” How fortunate for you.” The farmer replies “perhaps. Days later the farmer’s son is saddle breaking one of the wild horses and gets thrown off and breaks his arm. All the townspeople say to the farmer. ” How unfortunate for you.” the farmer responds ” perhaps” Again, days later a military drafter come the the farmers house and attempts to draft the farmers son for war. The farmers son has a broken arm so he cannot be drafted for war. All the townspeople say to the farmer. “How fortunate for you.” The farmer says perhaps”……. You get the point? So a high percentage of men in the states are genitally mutilated. How fortunate or unfortunate is the drama and the struggle of righteousness that we all must face within our own egos. Judgement is something I will leave to powers beyond me. I know how I feel about the situation, and I have freed myself from my kharma by leaving my son intact. Intact is how nature presented my son to me, and I will listen to nature. Do I believe it is fortunate or unfortunate? What does anybody know for sure enough to sway anybodies choices. Regardless of the institutions who endorse circumcision, the parents of the states still chose to listen to the powers that be. It is the choice of the individual not the masses. When the people of the States remember that they are this great country, not the wealthy influential powers that be, we as a nations will begin to inherit our birthright. I believe that the topic of circumcision is one of those catalyst to help the people learn how to trust their own individual choices. The best part of failing to be responsible for one’s own life is that there is always someone to blame. All in all, I believe that we are both speaking of being responsible caretakers of the planet, and its population. Choice is our greatest strength and worst curse. I enjoy the space of dichotomy. Choice is more than just good and bad, and black and white. Choice can be empowering, yet power can corrupt. “perhaps”. Ha

      On Fri, May 9, 2014 at 9:42 AM, The Intact America Blog wrote:

      > Paul Frohlich commented: “By the way I like Rand Paul, his father Ron > Paul is the first presidential candidate who dare to oppose circumcision > and feel sorry to let this happen to his 2 sons. If Rand Paul would become > a president , my feeling is something will change in the regar” >

    • May 9, 2014 11:21 pm

      Yes I do know the story and understand what you try to tell me.and I do not just pretend that you are very smart guy the way you put things, I like to read you. But as I said I am more warlike against humanity ignorance. Did humans submit you because of your experience as a baby? Do you feel like that? If I be cut would I be less warlike and more in submission? The way I feel now and with all the knowledge I have and if cut and the doctor still alive would I come and smash him in peaces? Or would I be different psychologically? Just wonder

    • Noel Trudell permalink
      May 9, 2014 4:01 pm

      So, I choose to leave my son intact. How fortunate? Perhaps. I also have experienced my wife leaving me for an intact man through some Freudian energy. How unfortunate? Perhaps. I just don’t know enough about how the universe works to allow judgement on the “perhaps” to affect my life in any other way than just to help me learn acceptance of what is. Only until I can accept “what is” can I begin to accurately make future choices for the benefit of myself and others. Perhaps. Please, Paul, release yourself from your anger. Teach the children how to accept. There is much to be angry about, and much to be thankful for. Whatever we perceive will be the substance of our lives. Let’s embrace choice without judgement and righteousness. Only until we experience loss can we appreciate what we have. I have no regrets in leaving my son intact, even as the choice created some interesting and challenging situations in my life. Be Well.

    • May 9, 2014 10:40 pm

      Perhaps you see things differently, me I like emotions like hatred or something similar.And do you think it ruin my days? Not at all I am a very happy optimistic person and its perhaps reflected in the music I love in the last 8 years even my wife got in to. Its called a Trance, Vocal Trance or some call it Rave or Techno. Some of it suck but most is very good. Each evening I put radio Amsterdam vocal Trance on my computer. We Europeans love this music but its also very popular in N. America. If I be angry man i would choose a different music.I think the more you know me the more you might get confused because I sound like full of contradictions. On one side almost spiritual and on other at war with ignorance. To be at peace with evil or ignorance as you suggest would be boring

    • May 9, 2014 11:00 pm

      How do you know , or what do you know about that intact man? Who is he,did your wife told you a reason she leave for him? i said something about you to my wife and she do not like what your wife did to you…….but than since I was not there in that situation how can I judge? My wife, Maria, told me if I cut she would ask me to restore but would not leave me.She also told me how she met a woman in her church who marry an Austrian who is intact and the woman did not like it and she told me when she meet her again she will mention something she did not know about before she met me…….she had no experience, not sure what she mean her English is still not the best……….but her sister marry a Canadian last year who is cut and they fight a lot……….wonder why, is she happy in her love life?

    • May 10, 2014 10:34 am

      Since you knew to the internet and did not know yet look up on your search bar “sexasnatureintendedit” There are lots of woman comments, stories, pictures, videos, very informative.

    • Noel Trudell permalink
      May 10, 2014 11:42 am

      Have you ever heard of the phrase ” the grass is greener on the other side” I am visiting my children this weekend, so I will have limited amounts of time to communicate on the internet. A restored man will still never have the sexual sensations and timing that an intact man will. Information is power, and power can be destructive. Anger can be useful when it is directed well and not allowed to turn into rage.

      On Sat, May 10, 2014 at 8:04 AM, The Intact America Blog wrote:

      > Paul Frohlich commented: “Since you knew to the internet and did not > know yet look up on your search bar “sexasnatureintendedit” There are lots > of woman comments, stories, pictures, videos, very informative.” >

    • May 10, 2014 12:41 pm

      This piss me of. You should have equal time with your children, you did not leave she did. The children need both parents and not some stranger who live with their mother. By the way, just because I talk angry that do not mean I am and I do not go in to an rage unless somebody keep on stepping on my toes but so far that did not happen, I avoid conflicts, unless its very important like ruining children reproductive.Wish you good time with your family. you did well. Wish all Americans are as you in this particular regard.

  13. Daria permalink
    May 2, 2014 8:46 am

    I wanted to share this. It’s very informative and HILARIOUS! http://www.collegehumor.com/video/6966989/the-real-reason-youre-circumcised

    • May 2, 2014 11:25 am

      Seems to me the video is a little bit propaganda of the medical or pro circumcision industry? At one moment the guy had a great sex and the information on what is wrong with him spoiled something. Its to say that there is nothing wrong to be mutilated? The statistical reality is that 66% of USA woman will complain of pain in sex sooner or later despite all the lubricants product the industries provide.And no need to go in to what it cause to man as well sooner or later when the exposed inner organ become insensitive with time plus up to 20.000 nerve sensors, needed for the proper communication to the brain as intended by Nature are gone. But that will not diminish reproductive instinct as as Ayyan Hirsi Ali writes in her “Infidel”. She was mutilated at the age of 4 together with her 5 year old sister and 6 year old brother on the same day. Her sister, the most happy and alive child in the world up to that moment become depressed and died from insanity at the age of about 20 when running in front a moving vehicle.Those that promote any kind of a mutilation on a child should be hung.

    • medicalbillingsolutions permalink
      May 2, 2014 12:24 pm

      The video is clearly ANTI-circumcision. And makes fun of the “medical industry” that began and continues to support the practice. Not sure how you came to the conclusion that it somehow is supportive of it. Also, the guy in the beginning wasn’t having sex yet, but was about to. Maybe watch the video in it’s entirety so you can understand the message. I think this is a great tool to use with young people to get them thinking about this well before they start their families. It’s funny and catchy which will get the teens/20-something’s and beyonds’ attention. I hope it goes viral on Facebook!

    • May 3, 2014 2:18 am

      OK, you say so, I just misunderstood.

    • Gianluca permalink
      May 5, 2014 9:19 pm

      It seems that the video is not available any more. Am I wrong?

    • Daria permalink
      May 5, 2014 9:58 pm

      No, it’s still there. Sometimes it seems it will play a commercial, then the screen goes black and you have to just close and open it again and you’ll be able to watch it. Enjoy! :)

    • Gianluca permalink
      May 7, 2014 1:39 am

      Ok, I was finally able to play it, thanks. Really hilarious! “Adam ruins everything” brings the guy back in time explaining that circumcision was introduced by Kellog to prevent masturbation. At the end of the movie, the guy says “I like it this way” and Adam replies in order to console him “it’s ok, there is no harm but also no benefit”. But is there really no harm? As they explain at a certain point in the movie, the foreskin has a function, but for many men circumcised at birth it might be difficult to recognize the harm. It would have been nice if at the end Adam had said “It’s fine if you are ok with it but there is no reason to do it to any future son you might have”.

    • Daria permalink
      May 7, 2014 9:31 am

      Yes, I totally agree! That comment about it not being any harm to be circumcised was out of place and obviously wrong. I just found it refreshing that there was a funny and informative video that is great for teens and 20-somethings. It’s more accessible than a regular article, for example. And now I can step off my soapbox for a minute while they watch it and then we can discuss from there. Glad you liked it.

    • May 7, 2014 9:49 am

      Once the damage is done on a baby its much harder to change the adult brain chemistry. The mind is unable to register something without experience. This why those no good creeps do it on babies. In my view they should be hung.

  14. May 1, 2014 1:40 pm

    Interesting timing for discussion of lubricants. There is a relevant article, surrounding fertility testing, in the current issue of Laboratory Medicine. The longstanding dogmas surrounding collection for semen analysis is “no lubricant,” as it can interfere with microscopic and macroscopic analysis. That has been the standard, although it may change with the advent of Pre-Seed, the product tested in the study in question. Small sample, only microscopic analysis tested, and only in vitro application of the product. No mention of circumcision status in the article, which looks to have been funded by the manufacturer. In any event, circumcision’s impact on fertility testing has eluded discussion all these years.

  15. April 21, 2014 3:08 pm

    The December 2008 Glamore magazine carried a front page story written by Katharine O’Connell M,D ,on how 66% of USA woman will suffer pain, sooner or later, in sexual contact with their man dryness cervical pain and so on and on and how to fix it to make sex better. That doctor lady would explain “all” the reasons on why it is so but the main one , she ignored or just did not know. And so I decided to write a letter to that magazine on what is the major reason for this in America and their response was silence. I was so naive, my first thought was that those people just do not know that, writing for all those woman magazines. Now I know why they would not talk about it even if they knew its true. Its all about profits. What it would do to a woman when you tell her, husband is not perfect because he was mutilated down there? She might get pissed of and no more buy that magazine. Humans can be such a dump ignorant apes. Ah……..! so sorry,it is not my intention to insult the real apes in the jungle, they do not have this over-sized brains with over-sized idiotic ideas as humans can have in a tribal,environments, where the many become the world.The Zen like wisdom available to each of us if we seek. They in the crowd would say “Who cares for that we in the crowds are bigger than the one who look other direction than us” People like Adolf Hitler are created in a social or communal environments. The “me” is no more it is now the “us” that is the “real” world. A very deadly philosophy or the lack of the right one. Each of us shall seek the Ultimate responsible for all the existence. Human is not the meaning of the infinite Universe. only tiny friction of it………..(but the Universe is made out of those frictions)…… Einstein would call on all the people to get rid of the chains that limit us………and keep our mind in the jail of human ignorance and prevent most, to embrace the beauty all around us, above us, and beyond us, they just ignore to see. Only if all can free them self from those chains of human social ignorance, they, the many around us that try to indoctrinate the Nature within us all since birth, that person will be able to enter the cosmic consciousness needed for humans to survive this age of scientific discoveries . This knowledge can wipe us all out if not careful or not conscious of the damage it can cause, mentally or physically.The genital mutilations of boys or girls is one of the many stupidities in human kinds and we that know, or woke up to all of this, its our duty to declare war on any kind of ignorance we are able to see.This not my mother language hope hope the tiny me made itself clear….

  16. April 19, 2014 7:01 am

    I was circumcised at 14 without my informed consent. I’m now 35. I’ve had 21 years of anxiety, depression and failed or unsatisfying sexual experiences. I took the red pill a few years ago and simply gave up on sex. What is the point in having sex if you can’t feel it? I had my ridged band and all of my frenulum and frenular delta excised completely. I don’t regard what I have now as a sexual organ since I cannot feel any pleasure from it. That was the intention of circumcision when it was adopted by the West in Victorian times.

    The only way we will topple this is with a violent revolution. Unfortunately most men are ignorant about what they’ve lost because they were cut as babies. Men like me who know what they’ve lost want to rise up and kill the bastards like Brian Morris who allow this to continue.

    Who’s with me?

    Lawrence

    lawrencenewman110379@gmail.com

    • April 19, 2014 11:58 am

      I am with you even if I was not sexually mutilated since I was born and lived in Central Europe under the Czech communist. Can you imagine, communism is a bad dictatorship and even they do not do such a thing to rob a person of his sexuality as Nature intended it like in the USA for a lousy little bit money most doctors spend in a day. This is a crime words can not describe. Nation that pride itself for its liberty and constitution. Where is the liberty if a helpless person do not have his own right for his private body parts? Stolen and sold to industries for its values, or so the lubricant industries make profits, or sex stimulating drugs make billions in profit! Even the Nazi did not make money in this way as America do.This thing started to bug me long time before Intact America was established. At first I did not pay much attention but when a doctor Dean Edell ….think was his name ….started to oppose it on his radio show in USA and Canada at first I did not understand what he was talking about in 1992 me living in California . I started to search medical books but they all show man with exposed inner organ that supposed to be protected from the outside rough world.Since magazines and books did not provided an answer I asked one day ” for what purpose would Nature put it on all mammal male species”? and the answer hit me within an hour. Me who is not a doctor, I did not study for years about all the body parts and their functions, how can a doctor be this stupid, ignorant uneducated on such a simple fact even even the most brainless would understand? The problem is America treating the doctor as God. And how dumb a religion can get! When God that perfect and yes Nature- God is perfect the way life is build and the Universe with its endless Suns and planets all is magical and here comes man who think he knows better. This is a mental disorder. I started to get very angry at the human species, how this big brain creature can be indoctrinated, in a communal environment in to any insane act Have children from before and started to write for 8 years to my future wife. I was shy to talk about it but I did indirectly in most of my letters and when we finally met and she got pregnant the same month and a beautiful boy came out of it I keep on telling her that if I be mutilated we would not have this now 2 year son.It just makes me angry what happened to you Lawrence and so many others around this globe.Just get out and fight the best you can those creeps that promote this insane criminal act.

    • April 19, 2014 2:00 pm

      Europe is heading to total prohibition even for religious reasons on a child that is unable to consent, America sooner or later will go this way, doctors will not be able to fool parents in the age of computers. Over a million future man sexually damaged each year, how can a doctor do this crime and than go sleep and not worry that one of those many millions in 20 or so years loose his mind and do something dramatic? A violence on any doctor that practice this insane act? The way its going in 20 years many of those effected realize what was done to them without their consent. Will all just ignore it? None of them will get angry unable to control them self? They just do not see ahead, common sense gone, or they just feel safe with all their money made from those operations that got them rich houses and security systems? Me I could not sleep at night.

    • Gianluca permalink
      April 20, 2014 7:44 pm

      I’m with you. Brian Morris is a victim of genital mutilation himself! This is the reason why he promotes it, like many others who do. Child abuse is often transmitted and circumcision is child abuse. It’s necessary to break out from this cycle.

    • April 21, 2014 12:48 pm

      Do understand your anger, would feel the same as you if in that situation but why you not restore? Not as perfect but from what I read the glans will become as sensitive as with the intact one. Did not know you British, what in the Hell happened , what, who made you go to that doctor who got paid paid for damaging your reproductive like that? Perhaps a doctor who do not know I would understand but those doctors if they know and choose to ignore for a profit reasons , in a real world that is not politically correct, they should be put on a short trial and hung after that. No such a crime on a child should be forgiven. Just in USA alone this robbery done on people that can’t consent, will bring close to 4 billion in profit to all kinds of industries not just to the doctor. The way things are going in America, its heading to a second civil war and if that happen this idiotic nonsense done on children should be a part of it.Once a child is born she or he is a person with the same rights as an adult. Religious reasons or not its a crime to damage a body on purpose, for a profit or whatever. Those creeps! They would not wait till that person is 18 to make his own informed decisions they cut him when he helpless. If they let them to decide at age 18 profits would drop to almost zero. Only a mentally disturbed would go for such a thing.

  17. Gianluca permalink
    April 15, 2014 12:23 am

    Circumserum: The problem is that softening the glans might alleviate only part of the problem. You are still lacking the erogenous tissue of which the foreskin consists of. But, it’s probably better than nothing.

  18. justin permalink
    April 12, 2014 5:55 pm

    Oh look, endorsement for silly products, c’mon, might at well advertise Extenze while your at it too…….

    • Henry permalink
      April 22, 2014 7:45 pm

      Way to miss the point.

  19. The Ugly Truth permalink
    April 12, 2014 5:34 pm

    Thanks to the American Academy of Greediatrics, doctors can now bilk insurance companies with impunity.

    All they have to do is cite the organization’s policy statement on circumcision and its reimbursement recommendation and their claims will most likely be approved.

    Dan Bollinger is absolutely correct.

    Doctors use their position of authority to promote circumcision for profit.

  20. Gianluca permalink
    April 10, 2014 2:09 pm

    So, when they say circumcised men “last” longer, it’s because they have reduced sensitivity and thus they have no other option other than keep thrusting longer hoping they will eventually climax.

    • April 21, 2014 12:54 am

      Wonder what that thrusting do to a woman and her cervix? Why there are two times more cases of cervical cancer in the USA and in places like Finland, where all man are intact (except those religious fanatic) and they have half of this cancer than in USA? Nature intended for the glans to be an internal organ that meets the cervix, also an internal organ. Those 2 can not hurt each other in mating. When the glans is not protected it become rough and might damage the cervical mucosa and the virus , if present, can get past the ” skin” of the cervix and infect it? Just wonder. But there is a hope for people like Laurence. If he restore, the glans regain the same sensitivity as the one of the intact male and some of the feelings will come back as with other man of the same problem report. If he do nothing he will become impotent. In my opinion the sexual mechanic need to be activated from time to time, if not the functions as Nature intended them to be, will become weaker or vanish all together. Right foods are also very important, no smoke or drugs of any kind , mostly organic if possible, raw fruits and vegetables,strong Oster blender that is very cheep and last for years, to mix fruits with a cup of almonds, 10 dates, 2 bananas, melons or , apple, orange and some distilled water so it become liquid after 3 minutes blending, this better for the production of the reproductive material than anything else can be. I can last on this all day without eating anything else……..or in the bed if my wife feel like that and I am much older than Laurence, in fact he could be my son………..and I gave life to 2 year old and there will be more. Laurence should be very angry but there is a way out of his problem, even if not as perfect as it should be if he be left intact.

  21. April 9, 2014 11:59 am

    Not only does a circumcised man have “difficulty controlling the timing of his orgasm,” he is incapable of doing so because the fine sensory nerve endings surrounding the opening of his foreskin that would have provided feedback to his brain are missing. So, instead of riding the wave to orgasm, a circumcised man has uncontrollable ejaculation. Fortunately, pleasure is pleasure, but the circumcised male, as CJ Falliers wrote in 1979, experiences the satisfaction of a biological urge and not the refined sensory experience he was meant to have. Premature ejaculation is not the fault of the circumcised man experiencing it, it is the fault of the doctor who circumcised him! Isn’t it time for the Second Sexual Revolution, when men stand up and say “No more, this sexual assault ends with me!”? And, by the way, April is Sexual Assault Awareness month, so this conversation is timely!

  22. April 8, 2014 11:56 am

    Its amazing Dan when I read your papers on this topic, so true and only few Americans know this. It reminds me Nietzsche and his ” Thus Spoke Zarathustra” a metaphorical story on how humans in a crowd behave.Just like monkeys, copy each other and their leaders any mentally ill ideas are absorbed without a question because other do it. America pride itself in individuality. What a rubbish! Most just act as those in Zarathustra story. No individuality at all. And so no wisdom.No intellect. It hurts me. As a child living in communist part of Europe I admired America. How did this happen?

  23. Dan Bollinger permalink
    April 8, 2014 10:42 am

    I don’t find it astonishing at all that American doctors hold a double standard. The reason is avarice. Hospitals, doctors, and even nurses are bilking insurance companies at the boy’s expense. They easily accomplish this task using their position of authority over parents. If you don’t believe me, just read my paper on the topic. https://www.academia.edu/6442587/High_Cost_of_Circumcision_3.6_Billion_Annually

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